1 00:00:00,390 --> 00:00:06,870 With these principles in mind, for all these steps to conquer your fears, create a list of ways to 2 00:00:06,870 --> 00:00:13,680 face your fears, include items on your list that very difficult, be as creative as you can to come 3 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:17,220 up with a variety of situations that would trigger your fear. 4 00:00:17,700 --> 00:00:18,880 Raytown difficulty. 5 00:00:18,900 --> 00:00:26,010 Each one would be make your best guess about how much distress you would feel in each situation as zero 6 00:00:26,010 --> 00:00:30,580 to 10 scale tends to work well, but use different scale if you prefer. 7 00:00:30,930 --> 00:00:32,400 See the example that follows. 8 00:00:32,700 --> 00:00:35,890 Arrange your items in descending order of difficulty. 9 00:00:36,270 --> 00:00:40,830 This ordered list of exposure ideas is called your hierarchy. 10 00:00:41,130 --> 00:00:46,320 You might build your hierarchy in a spreadsheet to make it easy to work with. 11 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:53,550 As you review this, do you notice any big gaps in your numbers, like a jump from a two to a seven? 12 00:00:53,790 --> 00:01:00,780 If so, look for ways to modify your items to make them easier or harder so you can add intermediate 13 00:01:00,780 --> 00:01:01,350 items. 14 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:09,300 For example, doing a difficult activity with a loved one can make it more manageable and can facilitate 15 00:01:09,300 --> 00:01:11,610 a transition to doing it on your own. 16 00:01:13,230 --> 00:01:20,520 For example, Jackson was determined to overcome his fear of driving an abbreviated version of his exposure 17 00:01:20,520 --> 00:01:21,170 hierarchy. 18 00:01:21,170 --> 00:01:30,270 It looked like this activity drive on the expressway lawn discomfort lifted nine drive on the expressway 19 00:01:30,270 --> 00:01:31,170 with a friend. 20 00:01:31,170 --> 00:01:33,150 Sevigne drive to work. 21 00:01:33,150 --> 00:01:41,790 Six Drive to the grocery store for a drive in my neighborhood for sit in a driver's seat and Barkett 22 00:01:41,790 --> 00:01:42,480 car to.